Wish Lists and Dining Cash
Spending less is the simplest, most direct way to increase your effective income, and build wealth. Done right, being thrifty is fun and liberating. Here are a couple of easy, favorite techniques for reducing or controlling your expenses:
- Use wish lists to delay and defuse the need for instant gratification. I have extensive wish lists on amazon.com that I use to queue up books, music, and other things I might buy some day. Having them on my wish list ensures I won’t forget about them. I even get some “ownership” pleasure from keeping them on my list, and some benefit from reading reviews. And I often find, as time goes on, that I don’t really miss things that looked appealing at first. In other cases, the right timing comes, and I can add one or more wish list items to an order and save on shipping costs.
- Look for the few categories where you could save a lot by watching your budget. For us, one is dining out. Years ago, we adopted a simple and painless mechanism. We keep a small change purse and every month we deposit our budgeted amount in there as cash. (If you want to forego cash, you can use one or more debit/money cards for the same purpose.) That’s our strict allotment for dining out each month. We can spend it on a few fancy evenings, or a number of take-out dinners plus some trips to Starbucks. The choice is ours. But when the cash runs out, we stop dining out until the next month’s resupply. The purse gives us a simple visual reminder of how much we have left. It’s “mad money” that we’ve purposefully set aside — and we never feel any guilt or stress around using it.
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